The Confrontation (Part 2)

So now that you’ve decided to confront your Christian friend about their sin, how do you do it well? According to the Bible, one important part of confrontation is gentleness. In Galatians 6:1, the Bible uses a Greek word for setting a person right that can also describe setting a joint. This gentle process hurts, but ultimately it moves the person toward correction and healing. Therefore, when it’s time to confront someone, approach them with Spirit-filled gentleness motivated by love (Galatians 5:22-23). In Matthew 18:15-17, the Bible lays out steps for the confrontation. First, you should talk to your friend alone. This prevents your shaming or embarrassing them in front of others. It can be easier to talk about tough topics with only two of you there. If the person doesn’t listen the first time, bring another friend. This can help show the person it’s not just you who thinks their behavior is a problem. If the problem persists after that, it’s time to call in church authority. It’s okay to take things to a higher power and admit something is out of your control. As believers, we now belong to the family of God. Jesus Christ has freed us from the power of sin and death, so we no longer have to say yes to sin (Titus 2:11-14). Therefore, we have the privilege and joy of helping each other along in the journey to becoming more like Christ (Hebrews 10:19-25; James 5:16-20). Naomi Zylstra When was the last time you practiced gentleness? What would be difficult for you about confronting a brother or sister in Christ? Why is it important for Christians to support each other on the journey of following Jesus? Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Galatians 6:1 (NIV)

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Matthew 18:15-17; Galatians 5:13-6:2